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Your Age: 41-50

Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years

How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago

How did you learn about it?: Reaction, hiding money , phone .

Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.:Angry, resentful

How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: I don't sleep . Anxious feelings

What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: I saw,psychologist, taking antidepressants.

What are your next steps?: To finally live without him

What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Anger, Betrayed, Shame/Ashamed, Alone

What emotions are missing from the list?: Resentful, hopeless

What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Seek professional help.

What else would you like to share?: I focus to rebuild my esteem, take positive care of my self , loving myself and my children. To start a new career.