Title: Remaining truthful after betrayal in a marital relationship.
Your Story: I have been married since 2004 and when I was pregnant my second child in 2005 my husband had another woman pregnant. This continued as he was working somewhere different from where I was. After several years now we were staying in one place with my husband this came out. The woman was lashing out at my husband for not maintaining the child. I get to know the news. I was angry , hurt, disappointed and resentful. It took time for me to trust my husband to believe in him. I was pregnant the following year my third child. I struggled raising two toddlers and I made decision leaving my husband with my first child who was ten years old. I resigned from my job and got another job close to my family. I raised my two young boys and I would see their father once a month. My 10 year old son wanted to come to stay with me alluding that his father leaves him alone with television. I took my son to come stay with me and my other two sons. We separated with my husband but when I wanted to divorce him he refused. I was still angry but decided to forgive him. One time when he visited us and the kids I was still having trust issues and saw one of the messages in his phone of girlfriend and found he still continued with cheating. I didn't confront him. I told myself I will raise my children they are my priority. Now my kids are grown up the first born is 24 completed University, second born at university doing first year , and my last born is in grade 12. Now, I am finally determined to divorce my husband but he is not believing me. I left him in 2022,May. I have plans to relocate and start a,fresh new,life without him.