Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 21 years or more
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: Being arrange marriage
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Very disappointed and sad
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Sleeping
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: I'm trying to save the marriage forsake of the children
What are your next steps?: Speak to a psychologist or marriage conselar
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Voiceless, Devalued, Shame/Ashamed, Afraid, Alone
What emotions are missing from the list?: Hate
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: To speak up and confront her
What else would you like to share?: I'm still committed to this marriage, I don't know if it's love or afraid of being alone