Your Age: 21-30
Length of Relationship : 1 - 2 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: A while ago - 6-12 months
How did you learn about it?: Just moved in together. Was going through his laptop at home, emails especially. Found out he joined multiple dating sites. This was the second time I found emails like this.
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.:Absolutely shattered. In total disbelief, but also equal parts numb.
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: The first time I found it, I had no appetite. Second time, I had dinner straight afterwards.
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?:Currently, just wanting to pray about it to make sense of it all.
What are your next steps?: Decide if I need to walk away or make it work and stay.
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Alone, Sadness, Afraid, Shame/Ashamed
What emotions are missing from the list?: Humiliated
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Choose yourself first. Someone has to