Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: She fell pregnant.
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: I was disappointed, felt angry..
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?:Not really
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: I'm taking it as it comes. But I just can't get over it..missing her still.
What are your next steps?: I really don't know.
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Anger, Sadness, Alone, Betrayed
What emotions are missing from the list?: I want her back.
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Don't get into it.
What else would you like to share?: I was married when we met, she got married a couple of years into our relationship. Our relationship continued. We were going to let go of our partners but she needed some plan to make the family believe that she not leaving her husband for me as our relationship was known to some family members but it was denied. Then covid came and she fell pregnant.