Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: Recently - less than 30 days
How did you learn about it?: Found text messages on his phone
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Betrayed, loss of my best friend, angry, hurt, shattered, completely lost trust in him
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Eating much less
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: I am not coping well at all. I have no skills to get past this.
What are your next steps?: Trying to find counseling
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Strong, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Invisible, Cornered/Forced, Relieved
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What advice would you give to others in this situation?: I have no advice
What else would you like to share?: I’m a cancer patient and I really depended on him. I thought he was my friend. He’s been going to appointments treatments etc and detailing everything about my cancer situation to her. And saying I have a year left to live.