Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: The other woman told me
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: My whole world coĺlapsed
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Over eating, drinking every day. Poor sleep zero self esteem
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?:
What are your next steps?:
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Anger, Alone, Betrayed, Shame/Ashamed
What emotions are missing from the list?: Humiliated
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Get out now
What else would you like to share?: Don't imagine you can get over it. Once trust is gone love is gone