Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 21 years or more
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: Cruelty, dishonest, disrespect
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.:Betrayed, devastated, heart breaking, value less. Loose trust and disrespect.
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: No appetite, stressed
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: I'm on medication
What are your next steps?: Try to heal
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Betrayed, Devalued, Invisible
What emotions are missing from the list?: Heart breaking
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: I'm still in pain, to all cheaters please think before you find yourself in this situation.
What else would you like to share?: My husband whom I stayed 25 years in this marriage but he decided to cheated me with the lady in the same church.