Your Age: 41-50
Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: Recently - less than 30 days
How did you learn about it?: I found videos on her phone of her doing very intimate things and sending them to a guy she knows.
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: I felt betrayed and sad. Now I just feel empty.
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Not sleeping well and I’ve gained weight
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: I go to therapy, but it only goes so far.
What are your next steps?: I don’t know.
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Betrayed
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What advice would you give to others in this situation?:
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