Your Age: 41-50
Length of Relationship : 1 - 2 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: Recently - less than 30 days
How did you learn about it?: Gut feeling. Then on confrontation he wanted out, and left.
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Lost
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Couldn't even breathe.
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Avoiding him with extreme difficulty. Its not working at all, I feel totally lost.
What are your next steps?: I don't know
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Voiceless, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Invisible, Shame/Ashamed, Cornered/Forced
What emotions are missing from the list?: Heartbroken
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Don't love with all your heart.
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