Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 21 years or more
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: I caught her with him
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Ia feeling depressed,heartbroken,unloved, hurt, not a man, ugly,suicidal, just want the end these feelings.
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Can't sleep don't eat much at all
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Trying to just cope with it
What are your next steps?: Don't know
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Voiceless, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Invisible, Shame/Ashamed
What emotions are missing from the list?:
What advice would you give to others in this situation?:Have none
What else would you like to share?: She's had five affairs 1n 36 years and I didn't have a clue apart from them one 6 months after we got married.