Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 21 years or more
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: A while ago - 6-12 months
How did you learn about it?: Spouse was drunk and told all about it proudly.
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Worse than hurt, angry, confused and lonely
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Yes
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Nothing, it lives with me every second and every minute of every day 24/7!
What are your next steps?: I’m not sure.
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Voiceless, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Shame/Ashamed
What emotions are missing from the list?: Hurt and WHY
What advice would you give to others in this situation?:
What else would you like to share?: