Your Age: 41-50
Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: Phone calls and other guy at work ask if my wife can cheat what can I do.
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Before I was angry but now I am beat calm, problem she dinies any foul play and she's pregnant
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: I noticed in sleep she want only one round of intimacy round of intimacy
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: I am trying, we are on and off worse part the kids know about everything.
What are your next steps?: I am still confused because I don't know the actual truth but a can see she's lying.
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Strong, Betrayed, Devalued
What emotions are missing from the list?:Cheated, used pushing blame
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Since I still looking for truth try to be patient and try to be carrying but it all the same
What else would you like to share?: I don't like fights in my marriage but my wife pushing the blames always she even want separation but deeply she try I must beg.