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Your Age: 31-40

Length of Relationship : 6 - 10 years

How long ago did the betrayal occur?: Recently - less than 30 days

How did you learn about it?: Phone messages

Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Shattered, broken, confused

How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Eating less and sometimes waking up in the middle of the night

What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Prayer and talking to people

What are your next steps?: Talking to my pastor to pave a way forward

What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Invisible

What emotions are missing from the list?:Resentment

What advice would you give to others in this situation?: To find somebody to talk to

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