Your Age: 31-40
Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: I caught him
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: At first I was willing to forgive but now after 3 years of knowing I saw him for who he really is and I don’t like him. It was all an act.
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Yes
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: I embrace my emotions and I am on anxiety medication.
What are your next steps?: I am stuck so I don’t know.
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Strong, Empowered, Voiceless, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Invisible, Shame/Ashamed, Cornered/Forced
What emotions are missing from the list?:Indifference
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Dowhat is best for you
What else would you like to share?: What is best for you.