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Your Age: 41-50

Length of Relationship : 3 - 5 years

How long ago did the betrayal occur?: In the last few months - less than 90 days (3 months)

How did you learn about it?: He told me he was having a baby with someone

Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Sick shocked devastated jealous hurt both then and now

How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Yes I can’t eat or sleep and cry all day

What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Nothing is working

What are your next steps?: Just keep going through the pain

What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Betrayed, Devalued, Shame/Ashamed

What emotions are missing from the list?:

What advice would you give to others in this situation?:

What else would you like to share?: