Title: The covert narcissist
Your Story: Year and a half ago I started dating a guy name Levi. As time went on, he wouldn’t make plans unless it involved sex. He wouldn’t acknowledge me or our relationship. He would make up excuses about why we couldn’t hang out more or see each other more using his mom as an excuse. After 8 months, he moved to Tennessee. And he would still call me every night we watched movies and two more months go by I started a job and he started complaining that I was too busy to answer him but when I would text him or call him he wouldn’t answer and he wouldn’t text back for quite a while. When I questioned him about it he said he was too busy cleaning up the new house and trying to do some remodel. Two more months go by, we are still talking about me going out there to visit him and seeing the scenery it may be deciding to move out there if we’re still together in a couple years after my daughter graduates from high school. Two months of that kind of talk he post that he’s in a relationship on Facebook. So I screenshot it and I sent it to him and I asked are you in a relationship? He said Kinda. We got into a huge fight I messaged his new girlfriend and told her what he was doing behind her back. He of course gets pretty upset that I went out of my way to do it. He sweet talked his way back into my life and we continue to watch movies every night and he proceeds to text me every day and call me like he did before. He claimed he was miserable and his girlfriend broke up with him and he decides to sell his house and move back to Nebraska. So he worked with his brother on getting a house in Lincoln. And he proceeds to tell me how much he wants to be with me. Have a real relationship this time and make it work. The second he moves back I hear from him less and less and he says he’s remodeling again and he’s too busy. He claimed to call me every chance he got when he was alone and I start questioning him again. I started putting pressure on him about being in a relationship, defining it and being real. He intern starts getting very upset and starts calling and texting even less than when he moved to Lincoln. Everything went downhill from there he said I wanted too much at one time he asked me to be patient and I couldn’t do it I started hounding him the second he moved back about a relationship and he kept telling me to be patient be patient be patient I didn’t feel that after a year and a half I should be patient anymore and he started even more abuse being really nasty and a complete opposite of what he was when we first dated and I called him out on having another girlfriend and he claimed that I was just in my head too much I was thinking too much and now we no longer talk he ghosted me on several occasions which was not the person he pretended to be to begin with and I called him out on all of his mental abuse and manipulation and he blocked me on all social media and his phone.