Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: In the last few months - less than 90 days (3 months)
How did you learn about it?: I knew something was going on about six months ago but tried to ignore it. Then five weeks ago I sadly discovered it had been going on for three months
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Devastated
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Not sleeping or eating enough
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Ploughing myself into work
What are your next steps?: I have no idea
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):Shock/Disbelif, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Voiceless, Betrayed
What emotions are missing from the list?:
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: I have no advice and need help
What else would you like to share?: