two hundred ten (210)

Your Age: 51 +

Length of Relationship : 21 years or more

How long ago did the betrayal occur?: A little while ago - 3-6 months

How did you learn about it?: She left voice messages and posted pictures her and MY husband on her FB page.

Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: I was outraged, crushed and utterly disrespected.

How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Lost appetite and lost 25 lbs in 2 months. Barely slept. I became consumed with it all.

What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Prayer, reading GODS WORD, and working out, therapy… self/love

What are your next steps?: I’m not sure.

What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Strong, Empowered, Betrayed, Devalued, Shame/Ashamed

What emotions are missing from the list?:

What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Pray and love Yourself!

What else would you like to share?: