Your Age: 41-50
Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: In the last few months - less than 90 days (3 months)
How did you learn about it?: My story is abit different from the norm, we were seeing eachother for more than 15 years. She is married I'm married. It started before she got married while i was married already. We were on and off during these 15 + years. She mentioned that she wanted to be my 2nd wife. In the last 5years i fell more and more inlove with her. I believe that we will eventually end up together. She had 2 kids myself had 3. That was never a problem for me. She made me believe that nothing happening at home. But on our last meet She informed me she was pregnant. Not from me.
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: I'm devasted.
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Sleeping disorder
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: It's difficult
What are your next steps?: I don't know
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Sadness, Replaced, Betrayed
What emotions are missing from the list?: NA
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Don't let go
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