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Your Age: 51 +

Length of Relationship : Less than 1 year

How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago

How did you learn about it?: Phone call from her coworker

Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Terrible trauma

How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Yes

What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Listen to music

What are your next steps?: Try and stop thinking about it.

What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Betrayed, Devalued

What emotions are missing from the list?:

What advice would you give to others in this situation?: I am not sure yet.

What else would you like to share?: We even had an agreement, that she would not cheat . But, she did anyway.