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Your Age: 51 +

Length of Relationship : 21 years or more

How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago

How did you learn about it?: My Brother in law told me about it

Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: I'm so tired and help less and I'm tinkering to filling the devotee and I can't even look at him

How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: I can't sleep at night

What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Drinking a lot of beer

What are your next steps?: I'm thinking of devoting her

What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Afraid, Voiceless, Betrayed, Shame/Ashamed

What emotions are missing from the list?: To be happy and love

What advice would you give to others in this situation?: I don't know what to tell

What else would you like to share?: For now I'm praying every day.