Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 21 years or more
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: Initially in 2009 from the women he had slept with
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Crushed
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: No appetite racing thoughts
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Stay busy..hard time coping
What are your next steps?: Seperation
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Betrayed, Devalued, Invisible, Shame/Ashamed
What emotions are missing from the list?:
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Leave right away
What else would you like to share?: Old infidelity that was discovered 17 years after the fact,2009 Complete truth never told..minimized it half truth told on Dec 2021after more evidence found to prove it was deeper than was admitted to.