Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 21 years or more
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: Through his cellphone
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.:Divastated,angry,disbelief
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: It was difficult to fall asleep and lost appetite
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Talking about it openly with friends
What are your next steps?:
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Shame/Ashamed
What emotions are missing from the list?: Bitter
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: To have room for disappointment anything is possible in life what is happening to others can happen to you too
What else would you like to share?: Do not delay to confront issues when you feel the discomfort attend to it and follow it through keeping quiet won't resolve anything.