Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 21 years or more
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: When a child of someone who worked for me and was very close to my family came knocking on my door looking for her father...guess what the father was my husband. Painful
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: When I found out I was disappointed,disbelief,betrayed by the one who should be protecting me instead of bringing sexual diseases in my life and bringing alk the soulties they had with people they slept with.
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Nothing changed as I gave my burdens to God. I can't carry all this pain it is heavy on my heart.
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: At first I went to the doctor so he gives me something for the pain as I had chest pain. But now i just pray.
What are your next steps?: Living my life as if is the last day. Loving me and taking care of me.Loving my children I have 4and teaching them NEVER to trust anyone but GOD.
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Strong, Betrayed
What emotions are missing from the list?: I don't know
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Never trust anyone. I was betrayed by someone who knew me ,came to my children's parties. I never suspected her in any way. She slept with my husband and even got pregnant and had a child kept their dirty little secret for 22years nut God answered my prayers
What else would you like to share?: People are wicked. I will NEVER sleep with another person's husband or boyfriend especially when I know you. What kind 2a human being does that?