Your Age: 41-50
Length of Relationship : 21 years or more
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: He told me about it after many questions
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: So so sad.
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: I can’t sleep or eat
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: We tried therapy but he doesn’t want to go anymore. He continued to cheat on me during our couples therapy
What are your next steps?: I want to stay married and have a good marriage
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Shame/Ashamed
What emotions are missing from the list?: None
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: You have to do what is best for you
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