Your Age: 41-50
Length of Relationship : 21 years or more
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: Recently - less than 30 days
How did you learn about it?: My children witnessed the affair
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Still after a year I feel devastated and lost
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Yes I don't sleep or eat
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Nothing but prayer seems to work
What are your next steps?: I have no idea
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Voiceless, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Invisible, Shame/Ashamed
What emotions are missing from the list?: Grief
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: I have no advise
What else would you like to share?: Divorce sucks