Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 21 years or more
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: A while ago - 6-12 months
How did you learn about it?: The girl friend called me and tell me that she is in love with my husnand.Since that day 14th February my world was never the same till niw I am reallt rwally hurting my husband is 62 years old and I am 57 years old the side chick girl is 29 years.
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: When that girl called me my world was shattered.Till NOW I CAN'T get over it maybe at the moment divorce could be a SOLUTION
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: I couldn't sleep at night even now the imaginations are torturing meare
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: We went for coyncelling both of us as he was apologising but it didn't work still fighting till now
What are your next steps?: DIVORCE(crying)
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Voiceless, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Invisible, Shame/Ashamed, Cornered/Forced
What emotions are missing from the list?: Unforgiveness. Suiside
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Stop to nurse the situation Stop taking the apology ALL IS ARE LUES..Just move on once and for all(crying)
What else would you like to share?: DIVORSE IS A REMEDY. THEY WILL NOT STOP