Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: Some things were being said about the affair with a friend that knew it was going on but never really confirmed with me. The other woman ( not my choice of words to say about her) made it a point to get the affair noticed to my children and I .
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Deviated to say the least. Angry, hateful, don't have any trust,
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?:
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?:
What are your next steps?:
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Betrayed, Devalued, Shame/Ashamed
What emotions are missing from the list?: None
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Not sure what I would like to say, I have to do the days one at a time have not received
What else would you like to share?: