Title: Trust yourself
Your Story: One year ago I found out. It was the worst night of my life. I have relived the freezing shivering shock over and over again as I discovered my most trusted soulmate of 34 years is a consummate liar and cheat. He had a two-year secret liaison before I found the evidence to back up my intuition. I felt paranoid and unkind to be doubting him but my gut instinct was right.
He blamed me and thought he would carry on, taking no responsibility for his actions. It took five months before he would delete their messages, a year to (pretend to) delete her number. It was all about him. With the option of losing everything we have together (marriage of 26 years, home, family) he has stepped up. I was a treated like a doormat, now more like a goddess. All I ask for is kindness and consideration.