submission forty-nine (49)

Your Age: 51 +

Length of Relationship : 21 years or more

How long ago did the betrayal occur?: A while ago - 6-12 months

How did you learn about it?: Told the family on my birthday

Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Hurt betrayed

How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Yes

What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: No still in same house

What are your next steps?: One day at time

What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Invisible

What emotions are missing from the list?:

What advice would you give to others in this situation?: No contact

What else would you like to share?: Can never trust her again