submission thirty-six (36)

Your Age: 31-40

Length of Relationship : 21 years or more

How long ago did the betrayal occur?: 

It's been a while - over a year ago

How did you learn about it?: 

Via email from his wife

Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: 

I've had a incling for years, and she told me I was crazy and just being paranoid but after reading the emails I'm devastated

How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Can't eat or sleep

What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: 

Nothing really it's hard to cope

What are your next steps?: Divorce

What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):

Anger, Sadness, Alone, Betrayed, Devalued

What emotions are missing from the list?:

What advice would you give to others in this situation?:

 Even if you think you've known someone for over 20 years you really might not

What else would you like to share?: