Your Age: 31-40
Length of Relationship : 21 years or more
How long ago did the betrayal occur?:
It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?:
Via email from his wife
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.:
I've had a incling for years, and she told me I was crazy and just being paranoid but after reading the emails I'm devastated
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Can't eat or sleep
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?:
Nothing really it's hard to cope
What are your next steps?: Divorce
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):
Anger, Sadness, Alone, Betrayed, Devalued
What emotions are missing from the list?:
What advice would you give to others in this situation?:
Even if you think you've known someone for over 20 years you really might not
What else would you like to share?: