Your Age: 31-40
Length of Relationship : 6 - 10 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: Recently - less than 30 days
How did you learn about it?: Saw the messages on his cellphone
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Hurt. Confused. Angry. Betrayed.
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Cant eat or sleep
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: I'm not coping
What are your next steps?: I don't know
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Voiceless, Betrayed, Devalued, Shame/Ashamed, Cornered/Forced
What emotions are missing from the list?: Devastated
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Don't trust anyone
What else would you like to share?: My partner and I have been together for 7 years now. He has not been working for the past 2 years. I look after him and his 2 kids from his previous marriage. We recently found out I am pregnant with his child. Yesterday i find out he had been chatting to an ex-girlfriend and never told me. I feel so hurt and don't know how to handle it.