Your Age: 21-30
Length of Relationship : 6 - 10 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: Recently - less than 30 days
How did you learn about it?: I had a gut feeling and I checked his phone he texted her babe we have to talk and it was under a man names i confronted him he blamed me
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Right now I feel very hurt betrayed bitter,crazy, ashamed, embarrassed, vulnerable,
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: No eating what so ever, I have been nauseous not sleeping at all crying every minute of the day
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: I have started doing anything as yet I'm trying to figure out what I should do , how do I go from here
What are your next steps?: I really dont know because I want to work on it we have no kids she has 3 kids and a husband I want to move on i keep blaming myself i lost 18 pounds i needed to lose that and I'm gonna continue venting to my friend
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Strong, Voiceless, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Invisible, Shame/Ashamed, Cornered/Forced, Relieved
What emotions are missing from the list?:
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: I cant give no advice because I'm looking for them.myself
What else would you like to share?: I wish I had known earlier he blamed me saying it was my fault he cheated