Your Age: 41-50
Length of Relationship : 21 years or more
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: Recently - less than 30 days
How did you learn about it?: The first time my husband was so wasted he let some secrets out
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: The first time I was in shock, confused, numb, emotional for several months
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: This time around again I'm not sleeping well thinking about it
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: I'm already on wellbutrin so that seems to help, plus I try and distract my mind
What are your next steps?: Divorce
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Voiceless, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Invisible, Shame/Ashamed, Cornered/Forced
What emotions are missing from the list?:
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Once a cheater always a cheater no matter what they say unless you have full access to all his or her accounts
What else would you like to share?: I feel like I can't talk to anyone about it and not be judged