Your Age: 41-50
Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: In the last few months - less than 90 days (3 months)
How did you learn about it?: They were caught by family members and given an ultimatum
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: I’m devastated. My husband cheated on my with his best friends wife who is also a very close friend of mine.
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Not eating and not sleeping
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?:Struggling to cope.
What are your next steps?: Day by day. He is in a hotel.
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Betrayed, Devalued, Shame/Ashamed
What emotions are missing from the list?: Manipulated, stupid, naive, disgusted
What advice would you give to others in this situation?:
What else would you like to share?: I have three young children and my life is in tatters