Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 6 - 10 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: Recently - less than 30 days
How did you learn about it?: By checking his phone
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Now I feel no love and no trust...I was devastated at the time I took care of both my brothers who had Huntington decease
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: I eat more sleep less at night
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: I keep myself busy at church and with my children
What are your next steps?: I'm considering divorce...since past December
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Voiceless, Betrayed, Devalued, Shame/Ashamed
What emotions are missing from the list?: Resentment
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Listen to your heart.
What else would you like to share?: Take note of what's happening in your marriage don't allow manipulation