Your Age: 21-30
Length of Relationship : 3 - 5 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: Recently - less than 30 days
How did you learn about it?: I found text messages on his phone, he denied it. Then I remembered he probably didn’t delete it from his pc and thats where i saw the messages
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: I felt like my world collapsed, he was the person I trusted the most in this world and he betrayed me, for nothing but 3 photos and a few meaningless conversations yet here i am feeling broken, angry, betrayed, hurt, lost, shocked, REPLACED…
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: We where maybe not as close as we used to be
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?:Trying to talk about it with a stranger.. and just trying to get the full truth. No not yet.
What are your next steps?: Trying to figure out what i want.
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Strong, Replaced, Betrayed, Invisible
What emotions are missing from the list?: Lost
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Just push through because this shit sucks but lets hope it gets better…
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