Your Age: 31-40
Length of Relationship : 6 - 10 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: Through a dream which kept coming back over and over.
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: I first felt as if I was over reacting because my husband would never have an affair with the neighbor and whom he knew we were very close to. Till today I still feel like this is a bad dream and someone will wake me up
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: I hardly eat or sleep. Been taking sleeping tablets.
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: I communicate with the people that mostly support me and have similar issues.
What are your next steps?: My husband and I have agreed to move because things are acquired with the neighbors. Still trying to see if we can fix the relationship.
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Alone, Afraid, Strong, Betrayed, Shame/Ashamed, Relieved
What emotions are missing from the list?:
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: You really need to be strong and you need to believe that it was never about you.
What else would you like to share?: