Title: Love triangle
Your Story: I’m recently separated and going through a divorce. A man I was in contact with on Facebook tom started sending me very polite messages. He eventually asked me out to dinner and it went very well and for a few weeks he was very sweet. He invited me to his son’s graduation party and we went out to dinner a few times. We only had sex once. For the most part it was just kissing. (The sex we had once was unusual because he did not orgasm). After a few months he didn’t text or call as much and we didn’t see each other as much. I felt it fading away. Another guy I have know since I was 15 (Joe) started texting me since he heard about my divorce. Our text messages became sexual as well. I also stopped by his house to drop something off for him. We did not have sex though. However he found out who the guy I was seeing was and he messaged him to tell him what I had done behind his back. I understood why he did that. He wanted me to completely break it off with this guy tom. However tom still wanted to see me. So I stopped talking to Joe. Tom and I have been seeing each for a year after that incident… but again he keeps fading and rarely would text me unless I texted him first. We only got together a handful of times and that was mainly because I invited myself over. I would bring him gifts and food. He only took me out to dinner once in that year. He constantly would break plans with me an hour before our date. I put so much into this relationship amd I finally felt it was going no where so I had a talk with with him. He said he wanted to take the relationship and become more serious but that only lasted a day. I only live 5 minutes from him but he said he was too tired on a Sunday afternoon to even get some lunch. So I started talking to Joe again. Just small talk. And tom became furious. I don’t understand why??