Your Age: 21-30
Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: A little while ago - 3-6 months
How did you learn about it?: We worked at the same company, different shifts. Back in November 2021 At shift change I had people informing me of the rumors (which obviously weren’t rumors). He denied everything when I questioned him but I didn’t believe him just because of everything this women had said. At the beginning of February he finally told me about him being unfaithful, I wasn’t surprised because I already knew. He was still in contact with the other women because she contacted my sister saying she didn’t believe he had told me and then went on and told my sister everything.
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Mostly disappointed.
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Sleeping less and eating less
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Nothing right now.
What are your next steps?: Wait until our baby is due in 3 weeks and decide after what I want.
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):Anger, Sadness, Alone, Betrayed, Devalued
What emotions are missing from the list?:Disappointed
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Don’t make decisions while your emotions are at an all time high. And don’t let family influence your decision.
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