Your Age: 41-50
Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: Through someone
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: I feel disrespected and neglected
When i found out I was angry but I truly wanted to fix things
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: There is a dramatic change im unable to sleep
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: I drink almost every day but it’s not working
What are your next steps?: I have moved out of the house, I’ll give one more try to fix things if I fail I go for divorce
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Voiceless, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Shame/Ashamed
What emotions are missing from the list?: None
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: I’m in disbelief
What else would you like to share?: It’s been over a year now but she keeps going back to cheating with the same person