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Your Age: 41-50

Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years

How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago

How did you learn about it?: Every time she would put the phone on silence and answer the phone outside the house.

Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: I am relieved now that our marriage ended..but I was so crushed because I started seeing myself as less of a man.

How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: I started been short tampered and having anger

What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: I was overworking myself, beside I was praying

What are your next steps?: I have been doing counseling,,,and I am also planning to do relationship couching

What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Shame/Ashamed

What emotions are missing from the list?: None

What advice would you give to others in this situation?:Don't put all your hope to a human being

What else would you like to share?: Never trust a woman