Your Age: 41-50
Length of Relationship : 21 years or more
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: A while ago - 6-12 months
How did you learn about it?: I discovered a message on his phone
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Despair, gut wrenching heartache
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Panic attacks and bad dreams
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Medication, yes it does help. Eating but now putting on weight.
What are your next steps?: Considering Imago therapy
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Replaced, Betrayed
What emotions are missing from the list?: Confidence
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Pray
What else would you like to share?: My husband had an affair with my brother's wife, it is a double betrayal that has destroyed my family