Your Age: 31-40
Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: I always suspected something and couldn't let is go until I got it out of my wife
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Now I still feel betrayed. I thought I knew her. When I found out it hurt a kot.
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: I started being healthier and losing weight.
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Drinking mostly. Nit really
What are your next steps?: I am not sure
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply):Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Shame/Ashamed
What emotions are missing from the list?: None
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Talk to someone
What else would you like to share?: Nothing