Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 21 years or more
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: It's been a while - over a year ago
How did you learn about it?: My husband came clean
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: I felt like dying.
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Anxious
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Anti depressants
What are your next steps?: Seeing a psycologist, working on our marriage
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Afraid, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Invisible, Shame/Ashamed
What emotions are missing from the list?: Paranoid
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Be patient with the healing process. It takes long and is difficult.
What else would you like to share?: There is a good chance that there is something good instore for you both. If you are being honest with each other, you will not only find negatives, but also positives you can take from the whole ordeal.