Your Age: 51 +
Length of Relationship : 21 years or more
How long ago did the betrayal occur?: A while ago - 6-12 months
How did you learn about it?: My friend told me.
Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Devastated, disappointed. Hate, betrayed.
How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Unhappy person. Occurred in the mind all the times.
What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Faith in God. It is not working.
What are your next steps?: Divorce
What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Strong, Voiceless, Replaced, Betrayed, Devalued, Shame/Ashamed
What emotions are missing from the list?: Bitter
What advice would you give to others in this situation?: Divorce
What else would you like to share?: A person should be clear and honest if she/he is out of love than to cheat in the marriage.