Title: 14 Years of lying
Your Story: My husband always went to his high school reunions back in his hometown. He NEVER invited me to go but that was ok with me. The last reunion he spent the entire time in a hotel with a married female classmate instead of his grandmothers house.
I got a call after he returned from one of his friends that he had been seen coming and going in and out of the hotel with this woman.
So I asked him if he had been with someone. He said no. Very convincingly.
Next I noticed over 200 calls between them on our plan bill in less than a month. Asked why so many calls. Said her husband was abusing her and she needed someone to talk to. Another lie.
14 years I asked him, went to therapy cause I thought I was crazy. Long story short he finally confessed 14 years later to that AND a three way when we were only married 2 years. Now expects me to get over it because it was 14 years ago! NO! NO! NO! It just happened the day you finally confessed so why should the results be any different.
We are separating until I decide next steps!
I am grief stricken! ANGRY! Shocked and betrayed! Never thought he would do something like this to me.
Hurting very badly, losing weight, and afraid of my future. Everyone tells me I’m not alone and how strong I am. I’ll be so happy when I believe this myself.
I know I can make it alone, just hadn’t planned on it and the shock of the change is devastating!