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Your Age: 31-40

Length of Relationship : 11 - 20 years

How long ago did the betrayal occur?: Recently - less than 30 days

How did you learn about it?: Through his phone

Describe how you are feeling now, or how you felt when you found out.: Worthless

How have your normal habits changed (eating, sleeping, etc)?: Not much

What are you using to cope with your emotions? Is it working for you?: Blocking it out

What are your next steps?: Separation

What emotions have come up for you as you've been going through this? (select all that apply): Shock/Disbelif, Anger, Sadness, Alone, Afraid, Betrayed, Devalued, Invisible, Shame/Ashamed, Cornered/Forced

What emotions are missing from the list?: Worthless

What advice would you give to others in this situation?: I don't have any

What else would you like to share?: I'm broken