Title: I'm not sure if he cheated
Your Story: Hi, my husband started getting distant three years ago. This is the same time he started a friendship with another woman.
He has worked overtime and wont show me proof. He said I should trust him. On his phone it showed he was at a hotel close to city the woman works in. He said he probably just drove by it and it showed up on phone
Several months ago he helped her look for a house. It's only four miles from ours. We have gone there and they shared a smile that seemed intimate. It was like they were rubbing it in my face. I cornered him and he said, "so what if I f...ked... her". He then with tears in his eyes said he misspoke. He said I am imagining all of this . We still have a strong chemistry and connection so its really confusing. If he doesn't love me, why not just leave. Part of me wants to end this...I'm just not convinced he did something.